Conference A39
NON-IDENTIFICATION WITH DAILY LIFE MATTERS AND WHY WE JUDGE OTHERS

When a person identifies, Consciousness falls asleep. Vigilance is lost; let us understand this. Life is like a film composed of many frames and scenes. It is by no means advisable to identify with any scene, with any frame, with any appearance, because everything passes: people pass, ideas pass, things pass, everything in the world is illusory. Any scene in life, however strong it may be, passes and is left behind in time.
What should truly interest us is that which is called BEING, Consciousness. Therein lies the fundamental truth, because the Being does not pass away: the Being is the Being...
When we identify ourselves with the various comedies, dramas, and tragedies of life, it is obvious that we fall into the fascination and unconsciousness of the psychological sleep. This is why we must not identify ourselves with any comedy, drama, or tragedy of life, because no matter how serious it may be, it passes. There is a common idea that states: "No adverse situation is permanent." Thus, everything is illusory and transient.
In life, a person sometimes encounters difficult problems. It happens that sometimes they cannot find the way out or the solution to the problem, and it grows enormous, monstrous, gigantic in their mind. Then they succumb to worries, asking themselves, "What will I do? How will I proceed?" They find no escape, and the problem becomes ever more monstrous, enormous, and gigantic the more they dwell on it. Yet, the day arrives when, if we confront the problem directly and decisively, we realize that the problem dissolves into nothing; it destroys itself, being of an illusory nature.
But it is essential not to identify ourselves with any circumstance of life. When we do not identify with this or that problem, when we remain alert, we discover our own psychological defects within the problem.
It is commonly observed that problems stem from fear; the defect of fear keeps problems alive. There is fear of life, fear of death, fear of others' opinions, of what they might think, of gossip, of slander, of misery, of hunger, of nakedness, of prison. Everything is feared, and because of this, problems become increasingly insoluble, increasingly formidable.
In an economic problem, what do we fear? Ruin, or having to pay a certain debt, because if we don't pay we'll be thrown in jail, etc.
In a family problem, what do we fear? Rumors and speculations, malicious comments, scandal, vested interests, etc. But if the defect of fear is eliminated, everything dissipates, vanishes.
If a person never identifies with any event, problem, or situation, they manage to be always alert and vigilant. And it is in that state of alertness where they discover their psychological defects. A discovered defect must be understood and then eliminated.
The worst circumstances in life prove to be those that contribute the most to our inner growth. In life's most pleasant moments, our inner work tends to be less fruitful.

When a person becomes identified, they fail to recognize the flaw that is manifesting. These flaws are typically projected onto other people, seeking an identification within us that prevents us from consciously discerning them, thus hindering our ability to discover or eliminate them.

When a person becomes identified, they fail to recognize the flaw that is manifesting. These flaws are typically projected onto other people, seeking an identification within us that prevents us from consciously discerning them, thus hindering our ability to discover or eliminate them.

For esoteric work, it is fundamental to begin a stage of incessant struggle not to identify with any element whatsoever. If a person identifies, for example, with alcohol, they end up drinking; if they identify with gluttony, they end up eating; and so on with everything that arises.
Becoming identified with anger dulls our Consciousness so profoundly that we could remain identified for several days without returning to the psychological work. It is essential that we fight at every moment to prevent ourselves from becoming identified.
WHY DO WE JUDGE OTHERS?
Now let's study this other aspect that prevents the awakening of Consciousness. It is necessary to know that we don't truly know ourselves, and that all people in the external world serve as a mirror for us to see ourselves reflected.
If every time someone with a flaw appears, we observe ourselves, we notice that something is stirring within us and does not want us to observe it. That is why it reacts and tries to make us criticize what that person is doing, in order to lull our Consciousness to sleep and prevent us from discovering it.
At any given moment, what bothers us about someone is something hidden within our own psychology that we carry and do not like to see externally, which is why we criticize it.
In other reactions, we can discover that internally we possess the opposite flaw to what we perceive externally. For example: if I see someone squandering their money and I internally harbor the flaw of avarice, this flaw reacts when it sees its opposite outside. Subsequently, I feel displeasure.
The key to everything is to always direct our observation to the inner world, to see what we feel, what we think, what we desire, how we are reacting, the inner chatter that occurs, etc., etc.
As a person observes their inner self, they make discoveries and can eliminate what they comprehend. But if Identification occurs, the next step will be Criticism. As soon as we identify, we begin to judge the other person, criticizing the defect we have projected onto them. As a result of the above, Consciousness falls asleep and one loses their own Critical Judgment.
Critical Judgment is the capacity that Consciousness has to comprehend one's own defects, but that capacity disappears as soon as one criticizes the other person.
Let us reflect on this: if we do not know ourselves, how can we truly believe that we know others?
That is why we judge any appearance or any action we see in others. But we must never identify with appearances, because appearances deceive. We look at a woman doing a certain thing and say, "Ah, she is a prostitute." Or we assign imprecise and negative labels like "that one is effeminate," "that one over there is such a thing," "the other one coming over there is a thief," etc.
But who is judging? When we judge others, we are often revealing our own flaws. It is our own flaws that are outwardly expressing what we have within.
We must realize that what we are judging in others is a mere appearance. We do not know the psychological reasons that compelled a person to act in a certain way; we simply see an external fact and judge the outward appearance.
Therefore, the judgment we make is a mistaken judgment, and what happens with that mistaken judgment? That judgment is a calumny, which ultimately creates a bad relationship between the person judged and the one who judges. In esotericism, what truly matters is the way we are internally related to one another; if a person judges someone, they become their enemy.
But let's continue analyzing: when a person criticized another and slandered them, they became identified. They lost the possibility to self-observe and self-judge their own defect.
Self-criticism is fundamental. It allows us to see our own defect reflected there, in front, in the other person. If we become conscious that we possess that defect, we can request its elimination, and it will be eliminated.
It is essential to embark on a struggle to cease judging others; this endeavor will lead us to what is known as the Awakening of Consciousness, and it will manifest on two fronts:
  1. Not to identify
  1. Not to judge others
If we begin to combat these two errors, our Consciousness will not fall asleep. And we will recover Critical Judgment. When a person truly recovers critical judgment, everyone will serve as a mirror for them to work on their own defects. The ongoing death (morte en marcha) will advance impressively.
A person loses too much time judging others. In esoteric work, when a Master is judged, for example, the person's development is interrupted. If we do not have the capacity to understand the actions of people who are supposedly at our same level of consciousness or at a lower one, much less will we be able to judge those of Beings who have a superior level of consciousness.
LET'S REFLECT ON THIS:
  • We don't know ourselves.
  • We project our flaws onto others.
  • We judge external appearances.
  • Such actions do not truly correspond to the judgment we make.
  • Therefore, we wrongly judge the actions of others; we slander.
  • The judgment we issue is, in truth, the very psychological flaw that we have projected onto our neighbor.